Soul Mate Express

My Inner Valentine Divine

I know for some Valentine's Day is a bleak reminder that we are not sharing our life with someone special yet.

When really it's all about the Inner Valentine first.  Being loved fully and completely for who you really are and feeling that fully from within that is most attractive.

 

"The minute I heard my first love story I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was. Lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They're in each other all along." - Rumi

That person is coming and it will be worth the wait.

 

May you receive your Inner Valentine's Love and Connection with deep joy and passion.  May you live the life you were born for with ease and joy and abundance!

Live today fully from your heart space and engage in what ever life gives you from a place of gratitude by being aware of all the blessings in each moment!

Love Katherine

 

Blessing Our World With Unconditional Love

It's not about us against them. Men against women. Women against men. Republicans against Democrats. We all need to wake up my brothers and sisters. We are all human beings living on this beautiful planet Earth together, as one big dysfunctional family and it is time we all start holding hands and giving each other a leg up as we learn to evolve in peace and harmony.

No human is an Island. We need all the pieces of the puzzle to come together to help one another raise the consciousness of this planet in order for the human race to survive and in turn blossom in a way that has yet to be experienced.

Yes, there have been the existence of highly conscious human societies before us, such as Atlantis, from where we are now learning their wisdom and where science is confirming through documented evidence that humans have lived way before we have ever known. Not 6000 yrs ago but greater than 12,000 yrs ago. During the civilization of Atlantis humans destroyed themselves as is in our nature. So we may learn and grow from their mistakes and celebrations and not repeat history again.

Everything happens in its perfect order with reasons we do not always know? Atlantis and its demise causing a society to spiral down from a high spiritual vibration into a lower physical vibration, is part of that perfect order for us to not only experience our truth through the existence of opposites (fear vs love) but experiencing the integration of all that is, into unity, wholeness, oneness. Grounding this through our human body and knowing the Universal truth of who we really are from a depth not known before, in the history of human kind.

This is such an exciting and perfect time to be alive. You are perfectly where you need to be right now, reading this blog post.

Your uniqueness is very important to all of us globally and needs to be celebrated every step of our human evolution. So find creative ways to celebrate often with friends along your spiritual path.

It is critical now more than ever that we all work together sharing what we know and what we love.

The tragedy in Haiti is a perfect example of how a crisis brings us together like never before, cracks our hearts open for us to love unconditionally and the ability to give without another thought. The result being, that in us giving of ourselves, we receive much more than we give. Fulfilling us in ways beyond words.

This is the kind of heart that gives us hope and is the very thing that will save us and gives us a leg up to  a world that shares and loves unconditionally. This is more than possible and the time is now.

We are at a crossroads. The choice of what you do with this information is up to you. Doing nothing is a choice that is yours to make. We have many choices. We have been given the gift of free will.

We came here to create from our absolute potentiality, a formation inclusive of unconditional love and bundles of intelligent energy, that of which we all are.

Life here on Earth is not meant for punishment and to experience hell. It is a matter of waking up to who you really are. There is no need for you to be afraid. Turns out you are magnificent and the clouds just need to be parted.

We came here to really engage in our life and plant our presence firmly into the ground. Heaven on Earth is happening right now. It does take some courage to consciously choose a spiritual path, especially through relationship. You will be amazed and fun is a part of it, I can promise you all this.

I am here to tell you with what you learn through your challenges has huge pay offs, so use them wisely. You do not have to do it alone. I have positioned myself in such a way that I can help people get through this faster and easier than it was for me. In such a way that you will have the tools to move along your own path the way you desire to create it. You will have the skills to do this without ever be alone again. I will guide you to the point where you will be able to fly off on your own and blossom.

I have learned so much and I want you to know as much as I can share. The key is to experience it for yourself.

We have embodied this spiritual experience through being human. The illusion throughout history that has caused more pain and suffering than anything else, is that we are separate from one another.

The truth is, we are all a unique magnificent piece of a puzzle that is apart of a plan grander than ourselves.

We all have a our individual responsibility to make a difference in making the world a better place to live. The beauty is, it is by being who we really are and making that bigger, by aligning it with your truth, that will have its most powerfully loving impact by bless the world the most.

There has been no better time in history than now, to live what you are most passionate and enthusiastic about. This goes beyond your five senses, expanding from your heart that gains access to more than what you can see, hear, taste, touch and smell. You gain access to the infinite abundance of all that is and it becomes second nature with practice and courage.

"Follow your bliss!", stated by Joseph Campbell, in my opinion encompasses all the wisdom of what we came here to do as a human race. When you follow your bliss you share your love authentically without an agenda. By sharing your love unconditionally, this radiates from your core, filling you up in turn, in a way that we all yearn for. You not only bless yourself with unconditional love you bless the world because there is a dramatic ripple out effect that is beyond our understanding and can be felt deeply by many all at once.

Dating, Relationships and Living Your Life With Soul

       Is Katherine Lia The Coach For You?

Check the responses that feels like a sincere YES! Remember you are not alone on this magnificent journey.

Take a deep breath and listen into the first feeling or thought that "pops" into your mind.

I am ready and willing to...

    * become, consciously aware of my feelings, thoughts, emotions, words,deeds and actions.

    * make this the time to create right relationship with myself first.

    * let go of blame, criticism and judgment (everyone, including myself).

    * let go of force, control and resistance.

    * sincerely forgive the past (everything and everyone, including myself).

    * dissolve all resentment, bitterness and pride.

    * get out of my own way by trusting the unfolding.

    * never abandon myself again, edit, rehearse or hold back my basic nature for anyone.

    * recognize that everyone is perfect the way they are.

    * to learn to open up to my intuition with complete honor and trust.

    * accept responsibility and accountability for self.

    * learn to go with the flow.

    * know my own unique truth without denial and step into my authentic power. (denial and fear are illusions)

    * find gratitude in everything including my challenges and pain. (Because challenges and pain signal an opportunity to be empowered like never before).

    * accept the possibility of flawed thinking and misunderstanding from the past holding me back from knowing all of who I am and letting it go with compassion.

    * open to a new way of thinking and doing things.

    * come from a place of honoring, loving and valuing myself first, from now on.

    * grow as a Spiritual Being in the adventure of the human experience.

    * invest in myself and commit to the coaching process.

    * love unconditionally (including myself first and foremost).

    * learn powerful, new, tangible tools that will serve me for the rest of my lifetime, including  strengthening my "in the moment muscles."

    * awaken to my spiritual truth and authenticity of who I really am.

    * to know the magnificence of my Being.

    * allow an inner peace and freedom that is felt from the depth of my core self to be the norm.

    * watch my dreams manifest before me as I move forward.

Everything is energy, including money. Your thoughts create your reality. Being responsible, gives you the ability to respond in the moment, from the place that is most powerful.

It is important to embrace all the qualities you are looking for in your ideal mate so as to powerfully attract them into your life. You will be ready, the time will be perfect and your dreams will be your truth and reality.

My vision is to create a community of  men and women that have the desire to understand each other on many different levels, in a way that allows for a higher level of communication that successfully bridges the gender gap between the sexes.

I work with men and women that are ready to go to the next step of enlightenment by consciously choosing dating and relationships as a spiritual path, choosing to see the mirror and the gift in each person.

1-7:   Sit quietly. Take a deep breath. What does your heart say?

7-14: Sit quietly. Take a deep breath. What does your heart say?

14-21:Sit quietly. Take a deep breath. What does your heart say?

If you follow your heart, where will it lead you?

    * It will lead you to a place where you are aware and connected to Source.

    * It will lead you to a place where you clearly create your hearts desires.

    * It will lead you to a place that is full of unlimited possibilities.

Take your first step to love, inner peace, magnificence and freedom.
Schedule a "Unique Strategy Session" today.

"You must walk this path yourself, but there is no need to go it alone. Make it easier on yourself and take an expert with you."~Katherine Lia

Contact me: katherine@soulmate-express.com

I feel a deep sense of honor to be able to co-actively create and walk this journey with you.

Katherine Lia is qualified with many talents and skills, some of which is an expert in energy work, is an Authentic Relationship Coach/Certified Financial Alchemy Coach®/RN

What Is Financial Alchemy?

Powerful coaching packages are available for you to change your relationship with yourself and with your money forever, guaranteed.

Katherine is always creating something new so be sure to keep coming back.
Go to: http://datingwithsoul.com and check out her two E-books,'Online Dating As A Mirror To Your Soul'
for men and for women, giving you more information and a different unique approach to online dating.

Namaste,
Love and Light,
    ~Katherine Lia

Online Dating As A Mirror To Your Soul

Hello to all the men and women out there frustrated with the results they are getting with online dating.

If you do not like the results you are getting then your approach needs to be different.

I am very happy and excited to announce that my two books for 'Online dating As A Mirror To Your Soul', one for men and one for women have been completed and are ready to be shared with you.

Go to:
http://www.datingwithsoul.com/  to learn more now.

I spent two years on and off using a couple online dating services and in the coarse of this two years I developed myself exponentially, both personally and spiritually.

I thank all the men that helped me get to where I am now.

It had such a profound effect on my life that I knew I needed to share this approach with as many people as I could.

I know who I really am. I know what my purpose is and I know what I am truly passionate about. Yes, by online dating, I bettered myself in ways that stretch beyond words.

If you are willing to do what it takes and give yourself the learning curve space to learn and grow, then you will know too.

Check out my e-books now to read more and see if you are ready to take the next step, in gathering new tools that will serve you well on your life long journey?

http://www.datingwithsoul.com/

My e-books are chalked full of valuable information, tangible energy tools and fun ways to learn more about the authentic power of who you really are.

Write me and let me know your life's successes and challenges so I can address them and help out in a blog post or coming up teleclasses.

katherine@soulmate-express.com

This is a great way to help yourself and at the same time to help others move forward that may be also having the same challenges coming up for them.

Let's build our special community by helping each other through our uniqueness's, by listening, by revering and delighting in each others sameness's and differences.

There is an evolution happening in relationship and you can learn to do your part by choosing relationship as a spiritual path. By doing your own par,t there is a ripple effect outward from you, that creates a world and a better place to live.

http://www.datingwithsoul.com/

Namaste,
Love and Light,
 Katherine

Do We As A Society Value Speaking The Truth Enough?

Do we?

We as a society are literally dying to tell the truth. Lying to others and to our selves compromises our immune systems, increases our blood pressure, and riddles our bodies with disease.

Do not underestimate the power of a lie.

It tears people apart and makes old worlds crumble.

Is this still OK for us to carry on lying and deceiving one another knowing its destructive power over our relationships and the life we live?

Where does change start?

It starts with you, right now, taking responsibility and loving yourself enough to make a decision today, that you will always tell the truth.

When on a date or communicating with the opposite sex on an online dating site, there are no exceptions.

You do not have to tell all, but be honest. Your choices have consequences that effect your destiny in each moment.

Stand in your integrity, aligned in your truth, is most attractive and draws people towards you because they get a feeling they can trust you.

You can not be in your integrity some of the time and not all of the time. Just like you can not tell a version of the truth.

There is a part of you that always knows the truth and if you ignore your gut feelings and go against what you know is right it will work against you somehow, quite often making you ill.

There is a tribe that exists that when a tribe member is sick they all gather together at a meeting spot.

They surround this person with love and they allow this person to speak their truth out loud in how they may have felt harmed by someone or may have hurt someone elses feelings.

Then all the members of this tribe stay with the person that has been sick until they are again well.

Wellness is the normal homeostasis for all of us.

I think this story of the tribes people is very telling.

Next time you catch yourself about to tell a lie, stop and rethink it without judgment, then lovingly tell the truth for your health and well being ness.

We are all one. How you treat another is how you treat yourself.

There is a collective consciousness that creates and effects us all.

The truth will set you free.

Namaste

It Is So Fun To Be Me!

I have been feeling so fabulous these days.I have been going out on fun adventures and events with my girlfriends and laughing up a storm.

It is so fun to be me!

I have been fulfilling my own pleasures and desires as I please. I follow my bliss.

This is my focus and what matters.

I know I have stepped into yet another template of my life.

I truly believe that I have left the old world behind for good.

I decided to start communicating with a man recently, that I dated about a year ago. This man totally confused me at the time.

He knew right up front through reading my profile that my purpose for dating was to find the man that will be my life partner with the desire to grow young with me. I am not interested in a fling was clear from the start.

I also asked him if he was ready to be in a relationship at this time. He said he was.

Well be forewarned, you can have your profile tweaked just so and be filtering out the men you do not want and attract the men more suited for your purpose of dating, and still have the wrong one show up.

His words and actions made it so I did not know if I was coming or going, back then.

At the time I was really attracted to him and had not been attracted to a man like that, for a long time.

So recently I started communicating with him by texting him something fun and flirty and he seemed like a bump on a log with his responses.

Oh this felt very familiar, indeed. He did not respond until I wrote something with the words, pleasure and desire. Well he was on that faster than you could believe. "Tell me more about that!"

When we were dating he went out of his way to converse with me in a way that seemed like he was really into me. Then he would not call for more than a week.

Then it seemed he would open up to me with his fun 5 yr plan of an early retirement or tell me about his trip to Austria where he lived for a while. Which makes a woman feel like he is telling her because he sees her in his future.

So the lesson here for women is observe without emotion and do not go there unless he invites you or gives you a date to plan on. For the men out there that want to be conscious partners, please do not say these things out loud. Try us on, for how we could fit in your life inside your head only please, unless you have a date set and invite us to join you.

The clincher was when he made a date for my birthday dinner and canceled it just before.

I wanted to know what was going on? I had really been pulled in here through manipulation, I now can see as I write this.

He ended up emailing me and telling me he was looking for unconditional fornication. Do you believe someone would say that? That is what I was thinking at the time, after feeling like he had been leading me on and was quite confused by it.

I told him to see as many women as he chooses to. "You can't have me!"

What a waste of time. He did not get what he wanted, I did not get what I wanted. What is the point?

There are women that want that too. There is nothing wrong with that but be honest.

I was thrown for a loop and it hurt. I wondered what is it that I must believe within myself in order to put up with such nonsense?

Part of this is, that I do not think the way he does. I would not think to act sweet at first to try and trick someone into bed.

I also started to come up with excuses for him like, maybe he felt rejected by me and it was a misunderstanding? Maybe he just sabotaged a relationship because he is emotionally immature and not really ready as he thought he was to be in a relationship?

We as women are famous for this kind of rationalizing and compassion, aren't we?

Transformation And Breakthrough In Relationship

Transformation can occur instantly simply by becoming aware in the moment and not judging oneself.

The power to create your future is now and only now.

Relationships are powerful reflections of you and who you really are, providing very incredible and valuable information with a higher purpose always going on.

The experts say that unless you take the time to become more self aware and self actualized first, then you will attract the same issues into your life through your next relationship.

Like attracts like. The world reflects back at you exactly what you have going on in your inner world.

As above, so below.

The very people you attract are perfect reflections of you. If you know how it works you can allow it to guide you to what you need to see next. Every step of the way you will get, more clarity, step into your authentic power and master yourself in some way you have never experienced before.

As children we started holding on to the lies and illusions of fear we believed to be true. By aligning your unique truth with body, mind and spirit in the now, you will be given the clarity and the tangible tools to know who you really are.

You will know what the next step is towards manifesting your dreams and true passions in life, leaving you fulfilled with the love and light that you already are and have yearned for.

We need only become more self aware in the moment to let go of the lies and remember that we are all beautiful, powerful, spiritual beings of eternal love and light. It is from this place that anything that does not align with this truth can be let go and does not get to come along.

It is by seeking this wholeness within yourself that you begin to attract your people into your life, eventually attracting your true love, your most compatible life partner and the life your heart desires made manifest.

The beauty is, there is someone for everyone and that special perceived someone will show up if you believe this person exists. Usually when you least expect it and have no attachment to the outcome.

Align body, heart, mind and spirit to powerfully and magnetically attract all of your dreams come true!

Katherine Lia
Authentic Relationship Coach/NLP/Certified Financial Alchemy Master Coach®/Energy Expert/Certified Reference Point Therapy Practitioner/RN
Expertly guiding you in fully expressing yourself authentically, to powerfully attract and nurture your ultimate desired life and partnership, in choosing relationship as a spiritual path.

Would you like to...

• create and live the life of your dreams, consciously and intuitively?

• know your unique gifts so you may share them with others to contribute towards the good of the whole?

• attract your soul mate, your perfect life partner and co-create a spiritually based relationship that nurtures your soul?

• be confident, filled with an inner peace and a deep knowing of your innate joy?

• have a strong and spiritual relationship with money, that fuels your purpose with over flowing abundance?

• awaken the fire within to the spiritual truth and authenticity of who you really are, right down to your DNA.

• feel your full energy, vitality and playful spontaneity from within, expressing yourself authentically?

Do you feel alone, like something is chronically missing within you?

Are you feeling stuck and frustrated in trying to navigate dating and relationship and yearn for a deeper connection and a love that is more?

Are you having money issues and desperately wanting to follow a path of passion, purpose and meaning in your life ?

Do you seek to know your spiritual connection and your valuable place in the matrix of life?

Does your relationship with money, health and love continue to elude you year after year?

Then I have tools for you that work towards the art of self-mastery in all of these areas, in creating an opening to your unlimited possibilities, unconditional love, prosperity, true freedom and vitality.  

It is not about rehashing the past. Everything is energy and Katherine has many powerful processes that will transform you at a DNA level, so you may create a new future from a very clean slate.

You can write a new script for your life and star as the leading lady or leading man in your own movie. The possibilities are endless. 

Living the life you were born for is a such a deeply passionate and empowering expression of your true self! 

Now that's attractive!

If you are ready to choose relationship as a spiritual path, by having worked with me, you will have gained so much valuable wisdom about yourself through the reflection of your relationship with others, that you will have access to for the rest of your magnificent journey.

I know how to help you easily dissolve the emotional stress, access your own inner peace and genius, so you'll experience the strength of your spirit right now ... in an instant. This inner calm is such a key to effortlessly attracting all the love, desired life and attention you deserve.

Are you ready to breakthrough the obstacles and roadblocks that have hindered you in the past? Often all it takes to overcome the “impossible” in your life is the right support and guidance. I can help you achieve greater happiness, peace, and balance in your life. As my client, you will gain more clarity and confidence in your own ability to live joyfully and follow your dreams.

You can move past obstacles in one session with me and connect to your own magnificence, moving you forward in passion from the inside out.

I have custom packages to suit your individual needs, for those of you whom are ready to make a radical and positive difference in your life.
 
Katherine Lia
Authentic Relationship Coach/NLP/Certified Financial Alchemy Master Coach®/Energy Expert/Certified Reference Point Therapy Practitioner/RN
Expertly guiding you in fully expressing yourself authentically, to powerfully attract and nurture your ultimate desired life and partnership, in choosing relationship as a spiritual path.
 
Let's go together on a journey just for you. Tap into what is already yours by becoming true to yourself and letting go of what no longer serves you. 

Getting in right relationship with yourself first will magnetize your soul mate, your prosperity and your heart's desired life, beyond your imagination.  

Align your truth with heart, body, mind and spirit.

You are powerful beyond belief and I can help you get started on the journey of you knowing the truth of who you really are.

Are you ready to live the life you have always dreamed of?  I will connect you with your unique inner Divine Soul Mate today! Are you ready to experience unconditional love like never before?

click here to understand more about your Divine Soul Mate

I invite you to contact me:
katherine@soulmate-express.com

I look forward to speaking with you.

Enter a world and imagine .......

....where man and woman delight in each others differences and are fascinated by the mystery and beauty of it all. Together we can create exactly how we desire it to be by bridging the communication gap of the sexes.

Starting with the fabulous and terrific you!

I invite you to read my blog below and encourage you to contribute your fresh unique perspectives by commenting wherever you feel inspired.

Namaste!

Love and Light,

     ~Katherine Lia

What is Financial Alchemy?

'Online Dating As A Mirror To Your Soul' E-books now available~learn more, click here

 
 

Hello Soulmate, I am here

I recently changed my profile online because I was inspired by Alison Armstrong's suggestion in leading with the truth. She is the author of many books and programs, In Sync With The Opposite Sex,which I highly recommend and where I got inspired to put myself out there.

It takes courage, vulnerability and risk and allows you to sort through your choices of who you will date, very quickly. You sort by trust.

The ones that will leave are the ones that are not the right fit. When they share there deal breakers etc it makes it obvious to both of you on whether you are a match or not. This way there is no wasting time.

For a woman if it does not end in a committed relationship, it is viewed by us as a waste of time. Often we have put in our hearts, our emotions and our soul. This is precious and need not be compromised ever again. Men can go on forever dating as long as it feels good and his needs are met.

I love my old profile which leads with my truth, so I splashed that in as well, since it is me expressing as me. This process of Alison's ( which I numbered) is definitely the next bold step and new approach to dating, when you are ready to move forward and attract a man or a woman that qualifies without compromise right up front.

I am a magical being on a magical journey! I am wildly expressive, authentic, beautiful and loving. I know who I really am and that I am the flow of love. I am passionate for life, with all its beauty and splendor. I love that there is a magical mystery that can be sensed on many different levels, that we can have a deep knowing about and sometimes we can't always figure it out and when we do, there is more to learn. I love that.I always speak my truth. I am an insatiable learner.

I am patiently waiting for a man that I easily express myself authentically with, to share this wonderful life that I have created for myself and my children.

You and I look great together and we are a fabulous fit, body, mind, heart, soul and spirit.

I am holding out for that connection with your human spirit. The love I am waiting for is special and sacred and will be with a man that gives me the support and courage to be better than I am. One that makes me feel that anything is possible.

Dating: Seeking To Understand Men

Many of you know of my latest adventure to the state of Oregon. It most certainly was food for my soul.

It also held the experience of me being left baffled by the man once again.

Well, as it has become obvious lately, I happen to be quite passionate in seeking to understand men and why they react the way they do to us?

Lately this is what I have been doing...... the experience with The man in Portland has been the perfect mirror for me to explore.

My thoughts in the beginning were to break the cycle that seemed to reoccur online for me with every man I have ever been interested in by doing one thing differently.

Maybe you can relate as well, ladies?

There will be a man that comes in and meets my criteria as far as you can tell by reading their profile, including body type. We will be having an interesting communication that appeals to me and then it happens........they disappear for a while.

This has been such a normal experience that bores me to death. What women want, is connection and relationship with a terrific guy. So where did he go?

What I know in my experience is he will be back a month later wanting to connect with me again and I have moved on with no more interest to connect with this man. There is the point of no return for me.

It has become so predictable and boring.

If there is no connecting what is the point for a woman? How can I get to know someone if he is not there?

It is not much fun and when there is no fun, it is clearly not for me.

More and more I am really realizing that online dating is ideal more for men than women. It is a candy store for men and perfect for how they are hardwired.

Which is not so great for a one man woman looking for a one woman man.

So I wanted it to be different with The man and I put out a request (man speak) that when he says he is going to call, then call and if he isn't sure he is going to call, to just not say anything at all would be great.

That this would truly make me happy.

I told him how boring the same ole same ole has been and wanted the path to be different for us.

Are there any other women out there that find this very thing annoying and predictable? If you're going to call, call, if not don't say anything.

My request was calm and clear.

Well I have found out a lot of valuable things on this journey of understanding men .

First I have found out that men say they are going to call and do not call as their way of playing hard to get and saying that they have a busy life.

Ok, so this is a man being a man and I will see it for what it is.

 I know there is a natural ebb and flow with man and woman, that is part of the beautiful dance of attracting the opposite sex, that I definitely get and enjoy the build up of excitement and adventure in getting to know one another.

Maybe my request was too early on in our meeting? Live and learn.

When it comes down to it if he really was the right guy this would not of been a deal breaker, right?

As I see it, a mature man would see that I had given him a gift that would surely make me happy if he were to follow this simple request.

Two days after making my request The man says, "I'll call you tomorrow."

Well I was so happy, this guy says he is going to call and he is actually going to call. Wow, this is so exciting to a woman.

As you probably guessed he did not call.

This felt like a blatant disrespect towards me, my needs and my happiness. If a man is not wanting to make a woman happy, my red flags go up. That is not normal.

So the red flags went up and I made him aware of how I felt this blatant disrespect.