Soul Mate Express

Hello Soulmate, I am here

I recently changed my profile online because I was inspired by Alison Armstrong's suggestion in leading with the truth. She is the author of many books and programs, In Sync With The Opposite Sex,which I highly recommend and where I got inspired to put myself out there.

It takes courage, vulnerability and risk and allows you to sort through your choices of who you will date, very quickly. You sort by trust.

The ones that will leave are the ones that are not the right fit. When they share there deal breakers etc it makes it obvious to both of you on whether you are a match or not. This way there is no wasting time.

For a woman if it does not end in a committed relationship, it is viewed by us as a waste of time. Often we have put in our hearts, our emotions and our soul. This is precious and need not be compromised ever again. Men can go on forever dating as long as it feels good and his needs are met.

I love my old profile which leads with my truth, so I splashed that in as well, since it is me expressing as me. This process of Alison's ( which I numbered) is definitely the next bold step and new approach to dating, when you are ready to move forward and attract a man or a woman that qualifies without compromise right up front.

I am a magical being on a magical journey! I am wildly expressive, authentic, beautiful and loving. I know who I really am and that I am the flow of love. I am passionate for life, with all its beauty and splendor. I love that there is a magical mystery that can be sensed on many different levels, that we can have a deep knowing about and sometimes we can't always figure it out and when we do, there is more to learn. I love that.I always speak my truth. I am an insatiable learner.

I am patiently waiting for a man that I easily express myself authentically with, to share this wonderful life that I have created for myself and my children.

You and I look great together and we are a fabulous fit, body, mind, heart, soul and spirit.

I am holding out for that connection with your human spirit. The love I am waiting for is special and sacred and will be with a man that gives me the support and courage to be better than I am. One that makes me feel that anything is possible.

Prosperity and Abundance Now

I apologize for not getting this notice out sooner. I thought that they would allow late comers, but they closed it out for this month and will give you a chance for next month to sign up again. It is on a month to month basis. If you click on the link however it will take you to a place you can sign up on a waiting list. So not entirely bad news.

You might not know Kristin and David Morelli...yet!

I told you about them in previous posts. They are amazing and so generous in sharing what they know, in true authentic integrity.

 She retired as a self-made multi-million^aire at age 30.

 He teaches revolutionary tools that clear ANY mon^ey block.

They have the #3 podcast on iTunes "Everything Is Energy" (Oprah is #1 and #2)

 THIS THURSDAY, July 16th @ 12pm PT today!...  They are starting their Prosperity Tribe.

 8000 people came to the call and many have signed up! (And thousands felt so grateful, they sent raving emails to them right after it!) And this was just for ONE F*R*E*E CALL!!!

So, may I respectfully say... "Drop Whatever You're Doing & Sign Up." Join us.  It will change the way you approach everything in your life!

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 I'll see you there! Warmly,
~Katherine

Dating: Seeking To Understand Men

Many of you know of my latest adventure to the state of Oregon. It most certainly was food for my soul.

It also held the experience of me being left baffled by the man once again.

Well, as it has become obvious lately, I happen to be quite passionate in seeking to understand men and why they react the way they do to us?

Lately this is what I have been doing...... the experience with The man in Portland has been the perfect mirror for me to explore.

My thoughts in the beginning were to break the cycle that seemed to reoccur online for me with every man I have ever been interested in by doing one thing differently.

Maybe you can relate as well, ladies?

There will be a man that comes in and meets my criteria as far as you can tell by reading their profile, including body type. We will be having an interesting communication that appeals to me and then it happens........they disappear for a while.

This has been such a normal experience that bores me to death. What women want, is connection and relationship with a terrific guy. So where did he go?

What I know in my experience is he will be back a month later wanting to connect with me again and I have moved on with no more interest to connect with this man. There is the point of no return for me.

It has become so predictable and boring.

If there is no connecting what is the point for a woman? How can I get to know someone if he is not there?

It is not much fun and when there is no fun, it is clearly not for me.

More and more I am really realizing that online dating is ideal more for men than women. It is a candy store for men and perfect for how they are hardwired.

Which is not so great for a one man woman looking for a one woman man.

So I wanted it to be different with The man and I put out a request (man speak) that when he says he is going to call, then call and if he isn't sure he is going to call, to just not say anything at all would be great.

That this would truly make me happy.

I told him how boring the same ole same ole has been and wanted the path to be different for us.

Are there any other women out there that find this very thing annoying and predictable? If you're going to call, call, if not don't say anything.

My request was calm and clear.

Well I have found out a lot of valuable things on this journey of understanding men .

First I have found out that men say they are going to call and do not call as their way of playing hard to get and saying that they have a busy life.

Ok, so this is a man being a man and I will see it for what it is.

 I know there is a natural ebb and flow with man and woman, that is part of the beautiful dance of attracting the opposite sex, that I definitely get and enjoy the build up of excitement and adventure in getting to know one another.

Maybe my request was too early on in our meeting? Live and learn.

When it comes down to it if he really was the right guy this would not of been a deal breaker, right?

As I see it, a mature man would see that I had given him a gift that would surely make me happy if he were to follow this simple request.

Two days after making my request The man says, "I'll call you tomorrow."

Well I was so happy, this guy says he is going to call and he is actually going to call. Wow, this is so exciting to a woman.

As you probably guessed he did not call.

This felt like a blatant disrespect towards me, my needs and my happiness. If a man is not wanting to make a woman happy, my red flags go up. That is not normal.

So the red flags went up and I made him aware of how I felt this blatant disrespect.