Soul Mate Express

Preparing the Way To Creating Your Dreams Come True

Surrender into where you are

 

First you accept where you are. Acceptance is a state of consciousness that evolves you to a level convening closely in spirit (= inspired). As soon as you decide to accept something difficult that is happening in your life, your life often starts to improve. By courageously facing your fear (the illusion) and relaxing into it, you will be experiencing your actual reality in the moment. (FEAR is F-failure to E-experience your A- actual, R- reality) that is before you. Your truth is what matters and will set you free.

 

Harness the power

 

The beauty is that there is a way to harness this power and allow the natural completion of the letting go to occur. When this process is allowed you create a new platform of which to step up on. From this platform of self empowerment your problem will never be the same again. You will have more choices. Where there was an energy charge before there will not be one there now.

 

You do not need to know where the anxiety came from. By allowing the full completion of the letting go to occur you are no longer rejecting, resisting or denying what is real. Your perception will change, creating magic, joy, love and a miracles.

 

Keep connected, use your breath

 

You need to remember to breathe, stay connected to source, (you are not alone) knowing that these negative feelings will not last forever. Have faith in the process and know you are really healing a layer of anxiety that you will never have to feel again.

 

Tap into your resources

 

It takes courage especially at first when you are in the learning curve. Like everything with practice you can become a master of releasing and moving forward in confidence towards your dreams. The more you can relax and feel, the more you can release and integrate what is you. This is the fast track to spiritual growth and a deeper understanding of the Divine bigger picture and your unique place in it.

 

Everything that you need to know is within you right now. It is a matter of tapping into your own resources. There is no new knowledge; we need only to remember who we really are and what we already know infinitely. There are as many different perceptions of the world as there are people. What is real? Your thoughts, emotions and feelings are real. Beliefs are only your opinions of your reality and what you think is true. Beliefs and emotions put power behind what you think about, which is what creates our tomorrows.

 

By allowing the full natural cycle of letting go to occur, you clear a space for a new perception and a new belief. This changes your negative thoughts into what is truly possible for you.

 

Thoughts create your reality

 

You are a very powerful spiritual being of light first, experiencing the human experience. You have so much power that your thoughts create your reality.

 

Forgiveness and freedom

 

Forgiveness is a gift you give to yourself. You say, “I did the best that I knew how in the moment”. You then let go of any hope that the past could have been any different. Put down your baggage and step forward onto a clean slate. Now all your energy can focus on creating the life you dream of, as you let go of what no longer serves you.

Katherine is a Romantic and Financial Alchemist Coach who deeply cares for you, contact her :

katherine@soulmate-express.com for a strategy session 

Her book will be released soon please keep checking back for further developments

 

"Those who will not slip beneath the still surface on the well of grief, turning downward, through its dark water to the place we cannot breathe.

 

We’ll never know the source of which we drink, the secret water, cold and clean. Nor find in the darkness, glimmering the small round coins, thrown by those who wished for something else."

by David White.

Be A Conduit for the Divine

We are more attractive when we are a conduit for the Divine.

This is one of my favorite Mantra's to help me stay aligned with my Soul Divine Purpose,
"I will, that my will, be thy will."

Let's capture the essence of the following inspiration shared by Marianne Williamson in Illuminata:

Prayer is the conduit for the reestablishment of our mental power by reclaiming its divine element. To the extent to which we think we are alone, we shall have limited power to materialize light. It is the Father's will that He share His power with us. It has been our counter will, for some ungodly reason, to go it alone.

Thus we have been like the children of a very wealthy father, pretending to be paupers, disdaining our inheritance. But the father still wishes to pass on to us his wealth, and the world is diminished by our refusal to take our rightful place in his family.

It is the natural order that the child shall receive from the father, and pass on his wealth for the good of mankind. For us to remain alone and separate from our relationship to Him leaves us spiritually impoverished and without a job to do. The spiritual wealth we are to inherit is not just our gift but also our responsibility. Without that wealth, we cannot rebuild the world."

"To pray is an act of power because it is an agreement between the human and the divine, and we invest our faith in that agreement. Through our faith, we gain the courage to take action, and through action, we move one step closer toward the manifestation of our desires." -- Don Miguel Ruiz

Romantic Rituals are the Perfect Fit

 Traditional romance rituals provide the perfect fit for men and women to have both their natural needs met.

When the lower needs of survival are met, the higher end of love, intimacy and romance becomes much more on the forefront of importance.

The process of dating is the gradual process of both men and women feeling hopeful that their needs, will in time, get met.

For women it is the hope that their emotional needs will eventually be met and for men it is the hope that it is moving in the direction that eventually his sexual needs will be met.

Dating rituals are designed so that the woman can relax and let the man take care of her needs.

The woman's role is to receive and the man's role is to give.

This in turn satisfies the mans need to feel needed and the woman's need to not have to do everything for herself.

The woman then gets to feel supported and the man gets to feel successful in fulfilling the woman's needs.

The man pays not because he makes more money and that the woman is not capable, but that the man is saying, "You are special. It is my pleasure to give to you tonight because you are giving to others all day long and I want this night to be as comfortable as possible for you to just relax and enjoy while I do for you tonight."

By a woman graciously receiving his gift of giving she has already given him a gift.

There is no other obligation necessary except to be receptive of his giving and appreciative of his efforts.

By allowing him to pay for the meal you are allowing him to show you his intent to romance you.

Receive his gift and enjoy your evening.

You as a woman may offer to pay down the road out of kindness, and he as a man would be wise not to accept the offer most of the time.

Dating rituals are designed to bring out the best in our partners and in turn in our selves.

John Gray PhD, wrote Mars and Venus on a Date states that, "Dating rituals reinforce the most important pattern: the man doing things to fulfill the woman's needs and the woman graciously receiving. The result is that a man becomes more confident, purposeful, and responsible, while a woman becomes more self- assured, receptive, responsive."

Both the man and the woman are being at their best in the moment and if allowed to happen both become more attractive to one another.

Romantic rituals are the perfect fit for the magical dance between a man and a woman and what is meant to be naturally to fulfill each others needs.

On this Valentines Day what ever he has planned for you is always perfect.

Receive his gifts of giving and respond with appreciation and gratitude.

If you were not asked out on Valentine's Day it is important that you romance yourself.

Get yourself a massage and buy yourself some cut flowers to enjoy for the week.

Be creative, which is what romance is all about and get together with your friends for fun, food, laughter and a movie.

On this Valentines Day Feb 14th allow for romance and enjoy.

Embrace it.

You are worth it on any day.

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The Alchemist on Following Your Own Legend

There is sometimes a bit of confusion in regards to a passage of my book The Alchemist “When you really want something, the world conspires to make a dream come true”.

Mind you, some people don’t truly want something or sometimes want things that in the end won’t truly help them. The Universe is a merely and echo of our desires, may they be constructive or destructive ones.

One has also to keep in mind the difference between dream and obsession, which is the same difference that lies between personal legend and zahir.

When you follow your personal legend, you walk your path and learn from it. The objective doesn’t blind you to the road that takes you there.

In the other hand obsession is what prevents you from admiring the teachings of life. It’s like trying to get to your objective without passing through the challenges.

I realized that despite the fear and the bruises of life, one has to keep on fighting for one’s dream.

As Borges said in his writings “there is no other virtue than being brave”. And one has to understand that braveness is not the absence of fear but rather the strength to keep on going forward despite the fear.

~Paulo Coelho

Women's needs before sex

What women need from a man before having sex

Laws of the Jungle: Dating for women over 40 co-authors Gloria MacDonald and Thelma Beam interviewed midlife women and asked how they knew they wanted to have sex with a specific man.

Filtering through the answers, they came up with some commonalities for the women's description of chemistry, a term that seems elusive.

The components of chemistry for women boiled down to these four things:

   1. Liking and respecting the man; his self-confidence and presentation; kindness, generosity, protectiveness, chivalry and other positive traits; acceptability in terms of status, income, personality, etc.
   2. The possibility that the relationship will continue; that some potential exists to make it permanent; that this man could be a suitable life partner for them and they can visualize what their future would be like.
   3. The man is willing to invest in her emotionally and materially, shown by cuddling, talking, kindness, acts of service, love talk, generally taking an interest in things that make her happy, gift-giving, paying for outings, having an adequate income. She could envision him willing to commit to a monogamous relationship; that his affections are not otherwise engaged by a former wife/girlfriend or current love interest.
   4. That there is at least some physical attraction on both sides, or at least that there are no physical turn-offs.

Contrast that with what men said they needed:

   1. He finds her physically attractive.
   2. She is willing.

Women report that without many or all of the 4 criteria, sex is fulfilling and pointless.

You can see that women and men approach sex from different places. Only after having sex with a woman will many men decide whether to further invest in the relationship. They will expend time, energy, attention and money to get sex, and women misinterpret this as an investment in the relationship. Men would start a relationship with sex, for women sex is the point at which many other criteria have been met.

 MacDonald and Beam explain the differences logically based on human evolution, making sense of all this.

To way back to the cave people’s time, women are wired to want to make sure a man will stick around to provide and protect she and her children.

Men are wired to get their seed out there to keep the human species going.

Yes, modern men and women have evolved socially, intellectually,spiritually and emotionally.

Yet, the authors state, there are still some remnants of that old thinking that is just hard wired for both sexes.

Thus Katherine concludes, women will dangle the carrot of sex to get a commitment from a man. While men will dangle the carrot of commitment to get sex.

And here we are................ ;-)

Ain't life interesting?

The way nature intended is how I see it.

Read more on the way Katherine sees it...........