As I continue dating, it has become so very obvious the value of being aligned with my truth and grounded in that.
I stay true to myself and I remain centered.
What has happened recently with the men I have been seeing is that they come into my life, we go out a few times and the truth appears before me.
The truth appears easily because what does not align with my best intentions for myself just falls a way, it was never meant to be.
The persons true colors are made manifest in a way that is always in perfect timing. It may hurt a little, but what I am finding is it is only a little, if at all.
Their actions and behaviors say nothing about me but about them.
I honor and value the sacred Divine self within my heart that I do not share with just anybody.
This is where taking quality time to really get to know someone and not rushing into a relationship really pays off.
I see these men as holding valuable gifts for me to see, that revealed themselves to me as lessons, so I could get clearer on what I want and what I do not want in my relationship.
I then place the healthy boundaries up around these beautiful lessons I have learned about myself because of the mirror these men so generously provided, which then creates a freedom for me to express myself more as me.
I then tell the Universe this.... is what I truly desire, with clarity. I say it with a child like trust and a knowing that it is so, and so it is. I let it go without attachment to the outcome and go about my fabulous fun life that I have created for myself.
The Universe sees that I passed the test and then sends me someone who matches the vibration of the love I have for myself.
"Next!"
I know that I deserve an extraordinary love with an extraordinary man that will show up in my life in perfect timing.
I have complete faith that this process really works.
Your worth is your truth!
All of your relationships mirror your attitude towards yourself.
Your relationship with yourself determines the quality of virtually every experience that comes your way.
You are the director of your own movie and the people in your life come in and act perfectly as your energy directs them to.
I have aligned myself with very high standards of the love I desire to attract.
The energy we put out is the energy we attract back to us.
Ask yourself," What kind of energy am I putting out into the Universe to have attracted this"? Then listen to your heart and act on what it tells you.
This puts you in the leading role and driver seat of your own movie, which is also your magnificent life.
We broadcast signals like a radio station, these are signals that reflect our true nature, our deepest beliefs and our unspoken attitudes that everyone energetically picks up on.
You have felt it before when someone comes into your life, that wants to perhaps date you and you instantly get this feeling of desperate yuck, that repels you.
Even in cyberspace, you can feel the energy of desperation and neediness.
The profile in itself can be very revealing of where a persons issues are.
Self love predicts your destiny. This is how important honoring and valueing yourself first is. Please read this sentence again.
Stick by this road less traveled with a persistence and a conviction unwavering and you will soon experience signs of the love you desire showing up in your life.
Remember that each choice either enhances or depletes your relationship with yourself and with others in every given moment.
Become more self aware in the moment and think about what you are creating for yourself now because this is what will show up in your future.
Sometimes the choice not to put up with something like disrespect anymore can be at first very uncomfortable and uneasy.
This means you are on your way to shifting your energy in a way that honors you. This is very powerful and will reflect back to you in a positive way that fulfills you.
Be courageous and loving here. Do not judge just notice what bubbles up for you.
Relax as much as you can into these uncomfortable feelings and breathe into those areas of the body you feel it the most.
You do not have to analyze and know where it is coming from. Get out of your own way and notice without judgment.
You will know something about yourself you never knew before that is beautifully you in your authentic power.
This is a practice and you will get to the point that it becomes second nature.
You will be able to handle and shift large amounts of energy right in front of others without them noticing or suspecting a thing. Like a self cleaning oven.
This is you taking 100% responsibility for you and your behaviors and actions.
If you have an appreciation and gratitude for your inherent and eternal worth the Universe will send you more of that to be grateful for, instead of sending you more people that do not appreciate you, you will be sent people that see you and appreciate your self worth because you see it and value it first and foremost.
This makes you very attractive.
The kind of partner you are to yourself is the kind of partner you will magnetize to your life.
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