Ok, I received this email from a man I am dating and want to share this with all of you.
Men and women.
He is allowing me to post it, which makes him cool and a fine example of a mature man approaching the beginning stages of a relationship.
This was so fun for me to receive this. I think any woman would be thrilled to receive an email like this?
This is a man that is really stepping up.....
"There are a few things I would like to ask of you at this time (and of course I will try to provide the same in return):
1. Patience-much of what you discuss is very familiar to me (love, respect, connections, purpose, freedom, etc.), but your approach to these subjects comes from a different angle than mine has in the past. I ask for your patience as I begin to learn to view things from a new and fresh perspective.
2. Tolerance - I admit to innocent ignorance of many facets of your being: Aesthetician, Shaman, energy healing, Goddess self, etc. .I ask that you view my ignorance, not as a sign of disrespect, but as an opportunity for learning.
3. Feedback-I want to make the connection you are seeking and be in the "whole dance." Let me know how I/we are progressing.
4. Respect - I realize that respect is earned over the long-term, but I want to emphasize the fact that I come to you as a happy, grounded, sane, open-mined, open-hearted, emotionally stable and, yes, brave man. "I am me, I am." Much of your approach to life will undoubtedly provide me opportunities to embrace change-and I will wholeheartedly change when I believe I'll be a better man for it. I am responsible for me 100%.
5. Embrace diversity - We will argue! I will push you intellectually and you will push me. Enjoy it!
I can't wait to talk..I want to hear your thoughts on "the balance of the dance."
This man impresses me.
There is an ebb and flow, a give and take.
An embracing and respect of diversity, with a fun twisting challenge for me to look forward to.
There is an excitement and a willingness to learn and grow in relationship with a woman.
He desires to have a good understanding of where I am coming from and to know more about what my interests are all about.
......"A new and fresh perspective."
He is able to claim 100% responsibility and articulate his needs clearly and decisively.
He speaks his truth.
He is fully engaged in his integrity, purposeful, inquisitive, intelligent, attentive, confident and courageous.
There is a masculine energy about it that is so inviting and draws you in.
I know It made me smile to get such an email.
He already understands his part naturally in the balance of the dance and has put his own unique step forward desiring to learn more.
Now that, is attractive.
Don't you think Ladies?
It is so fun and exciting to have a man really show up.
When a man really steps it up, a woman's need to admire you and be devoted to your authentic strength gets met and we melt.
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