When a man retreats and does not call, it is a very healthy and common process for men to go through while dating and moving toward a relationship with someone.
Here is a fine example of how men and women are hard wired so differently.
Women unconsciously engage with the man before the man has even thought for a moment about being in a future relationship with her.
The man at this point is unconsciously uncertain about the relationship and has the desire to be in his state of blissful nothingness of freedom, fullness and purpose.
Women quite often interpret this time as a rejection of her by the man.
This misunderstanding can be what can cause unnecessary resistance between the sexes.
Unless of coarse we as women are aware that this is a natural process of relationship and how men do their thing.
This is simply a man being a man.
Nothing more and nothing less. This is what we as women really want. The man to be the man. Right?
Let us breathe and relax and give him space to figure things out.
By knowing this, women can now come from this place of knowing and trusting the man's process by being patient and continuing to live their own full and fabulous lives, enthusiastically.
Women like connection and momentum.
I suggest for women to continue dating other men right up to the point that the man that you choose to be with, chooses you and asks you to be exclusive with him.
This way you continue to get to know what it is you like and do not like by interacting with all the different types of men that happen to cross your path and want to date you.
Maybe you will find someone more suiting?
This is possible and can happen.
Something to consider. I don't want any of us women just to settle.
Remember that the man you choose is the man you get.
Choose wisely. This is your life.
How could you possibly know about this person in such a small amount of time really?
Many women project their fantasies out on to him about what the relationship should look like.
This is not fair to him and will not serve you well. This will backfire sure enough.
Stay in the moment to moment reality so you will make decisions that are in your best interest always.
It is important to get to know that person before you make any long term commitments.
To become more conscious together the next important step is communication.
Ladies do not force this by calling, emailing or texting. This can send them running for the hills to never return again.
This is usually a good time to become aware of all the feelings of insecurities being triggered right now. Breathe them through. Let them go, and call your girlfriends to talk.
Remember, you are the prize.
You are in a position to choose wisely who it is that you want to be with.
Let the best man win!
Let this be your time to grow and step into your authentic power of learning more about who you really are and about the life you desire to create for yourself.
Do what you must, to get in a place of having faith that the timing is always perfect and everything will unfold in exactly the way it was meant to happen.
Stay in the natural flow of things and you will not suffer.
Timing is everything. Trust the man's process.
If it was meant for you both to be together, then guess what ? You will be together.
Allow the man to fill the void and move towards you, choosing you all on his own.
Fill up your own needs now without looking outside yourself to have them met. What do you love to do and just do it.
You will be a lot more interesting and mysterious.
The funny thing is, that as this natural dance between man and woman unfolds, the woman moves into a conscious uncertainty again and the man moves into unconscious engagement.
It flips. Interesting ha!
Next comes conscious engagement for both the man and the woman, then conscious attraction that is mutual, then we both surrender into a committed relationship and what we create together is what comes next.
How sweet is that?
You create your fabulous, exciting life, while he creates his and as you spend the time together you create something fun and new in each happening.
It is set up so perfectly especially when you understand the perfection that we see in nature everyday.
So ladies trust your mans' process and have it Divinely fall into place as it was all meant to happen.
In honor of women desiring to understand the way a man thinks, I would like to share a very sweet gesture that a man can do that makes it easier for the woman to relax into your process.
After you have been together on a date and before you retreat, send the woman that you care for an email the next day.
Something that is cute and creative, about how you enjoyed the evening and that you are in a blissful state of mind, feeling like a man.
This allows us to know what is next and we so appreciate your thoughtfulness.
Stay in the flow and let me know what you think by commenting on this post?
Thank you for sharing. Namaste
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