I am a dater!
This is what my friends have called me with great support, enthusiasm and giggles.
My girlfriends love me and live through me vicariously.
The man I have been seeing has retreated into his blissful nothingness of freedom and purpose once again.
I believe he wants to date other women.
That is fine with me. Be free.
I date men that choose me as I have positioned myself to choose them.
Something is lost if the man is not crazy about me.
It is called fun!
I will not compromise that desire. There is no way.
So I go out and date other men with enthusiasm.
I liked to be wined and dined.
The universe has provided me with some very interesting men in my inbox.
They are quite articulate with their words in expressing themselves. Something that I am very attracted to.
I am changing up my format a bit and am going to share my journey of love and dating with you, all in the hopes of you sharing yours and creating a cool community where we can fully express ourselves to help bridge the gender gap.
I have put some boundaries up that I have always had in place. I am different in that I do not share my love life with my girlfriends.
My love life is sacred and that is the business between that man and myself that will not go outside of those walls.
This is my choice and it works well for me.
What has happened in the past is our own business and will not be shared. I do not want to know about your past(the man I am seeing) and my past is of no body else's business but mine.
Also the past is the past.
I prefer to clean the slate every time.
I walk forward as if I have never been hurt before.
This new interaction with this new person will never be like any other interaction before it.
Everyone that crosses my path is unique, as is our interaction, as is what is created between us simply because our paths have crossed.
I revere this knowing, with you.
This is true with any other person you have ever met.
This new interaction is between he and I and no body else. If we have disagreements I do not go to my friends to resolve it, I go to you (the man).
I have learned to do this blessed process by becoming aware that all new interactions with men are a powerful way to really get to know who I am.
In this learning the result has allowed me to be very strong in my vulnerability.
My girlfriends are gold to me.
There are somethings that I will go to them to help me "try on new hats" out loud which always connects me to the answers I seek.
The connections I have with women goes well beyond words. A regular connection with them is a must for me.
My friends talk openly about sex when we are together which is fun and very entertaining to say the least.
I am thankful that not everyone deals in the same way that I do.
Our differences are the spice of life.
There are so many layers to women that make me so thankful to be one.
We are so rich and deep and beautiful.
Girlfriends are who you go to communicate your feelings and connect in love and joy and the celebration of all that is.
Men are generally afraid of your emotions and there are ways to communicate your feelings with them so they listen and you get your needs met.
For example: Make a request with the right timing and on a positive note.
" You know when you do (this thing,fill in the blanks)_______. Please do more of that. I love when you do that"
Instead of, "I hate it when you always do this." Right in the moment that your buttons were pushed.
Feel the difference?
Women have been gifted with the ways to learn how to connect with men and bridge the gap between the genders.
This is a big part of what this blog is all about. Self expression of your truth as women and as men to figure out how to best get along.
It is helpful to not expect your men to understand the process needed to express our feelings.
Take it to your girlfriends.
As a man matures it is more likely that if you communicate in a language that he understands he lights up, feels like a winner and most definitely fulfills his needs in wanting to please you, as a woman, which in turn fulfills your needs.
A win win situation.
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I will revere always our paths crossing even in cyberspace.
This is what is so cool about the internet.
I get to connect with beautiful people like yourself from all over the world.
It touches my heart.
We all want to connect with someone to love and be loved no matter where you live in this world.
This is what I am passionate about.
My archetype is Romantic Alchemist. It comes up from the core of my being. I so want to share all that I know with you.
The passion of humanity connecting and being kind to one another runs through my blood.
What would you like to know?
Stay tuned.........
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