Do your dreams mesh?
This is a very important question when choosing your partner.
This is a very important question to ask in the early stages of dating. It tells a lot.
It is of no use choosing a man who's dreams are not a compliment to your dreams.
I dated a man that when asked what his dreams were, he stated that when he retired he wanted to be surfing in California everyday with his four boys.
I could not see myself fitting into that lifestyle, nor the sidelines of that lifestyle.
It did not seem that a woman would have been invited either.
I do not think it is healthy to be a part of all of my man's dreams. I just knew this guy was not for me. Great to know so early on.
I believe everyone deserves to live their dreams.
The type of life that allows you to express yourself as yourself and really lights you up with that passion that stirs your soul.
Once you know the other persons dreams and you are in relationship with that person, you may ask, "So how is it that I can be a support to my partner?"
What is his greatest gifts to give to the world and how can I inspire him in this capacity?
It must be mutual.
How can I support her in her dreams and who she really wants to be?
In doing so we must respect what the other person wants to be so not to come from this place of trying to change the other person.
To fully be on board with this and committed to being a true supportive partner, as it needs to be without either of us compromising.
What is important in making our dreams happen simultaneously as we both grow together?
So there is this beautiful dance of I trust your intuition and process and where you want to go.
I want you to be the person that you want to be and manifest the life that you desire.
You inspire and encourage one another in seeing where you both want to go and what makes you happiest.
By being together in this loving supportive relationship you end up creating something much bigger than yourselves, that blesses the world and radiates outward this beautiful joy and passion as you dance.
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